Are divorce laws fair?

Issues with the concept of marital rape:

What is the way to prove it?
Who is trustworthy- person making allegations or the defendant?
What is the definition of marital rape? What is the definition of will and consent?
Is it a criminal act?
Is jailtime for this act justified?
What will happen to children, if father goes to jail for this allegation?
How the women will get monetary compensation if husband is in jail?

If it is classified as a criminal activity:
Will it result in avoidance of marriage by males and females?
Will it increase prostitution?
Will it increase live in relationships?
Will it lead to more illegitimate children?
Will it increase STD's?
Will it break the basic family and society values?
Will it encourage same sex marriage?
Will it lead to less job opportunities for females?

Bharti Raizada